Click here to purchase our “Understanding Compulsive Helping” DVD!
Do you have trouble saying “no”? Do you struggle with feelings or guilt or resentment when it comes to helping others? Do you fear rejection if you don’t help others?
This DVD will serve as a valuable resource to you! Using engaging personal stories, clear illustrations, and practical steps, including EFT setups, Loretta walks you through the ins and outs of this common problem, how it affects daily living and relationships, and how to deal with it in a safe and encouraging way.
“Sparks is a fabulous last name for such a vibrant, engaging and enthusiastic teacher. Loretta’s innovative method of reframing “enabling” and “codependency” sheds new light on a stubborn situation. This Compulsive Helping DVD is a must for anyone dealing with addiction professionally or personally.” ~ Karin Davidson, EFT Practitioner, AAMET Trainer, MTT, ADV Practitioner
“WOW! What a colossal effort and a great product. This is by far the best package on codependency that I’ve seen. Well organised, well presented.” ~ Toby Solomon, PhD, Psychotherapist (Retired), Australia
“Loretta’s grounded wisdom, personality, and even more – her humanity (those personal examples!) shine through the entire DVD.” ~
Regina O’Melveny, Poet, Author, Educator.
“Again, Loretta delivers! This DVD provides not only a framework for understanding Compulsive Helping, but also a clear path on how to free yourself or your clients from it’s grip.” ~ Ann Adams, LCSW, EFTCert-Honors, EFT4Powerpoint Developer.
If you struggle with Compulsive Helping, as many of us do, you may feel stuck in a pattern of behavior that puts your needs, wants and feelings second to others. Try as you may to change that pattern you feel too guilty to follow through, so you find yourself helping, again, to avoid guilt. Unfortunately, the price tag for avoiding this type of guilt is ever increasing amounts of resentment and anger, which are toxic to any relationship. Loretta shows you how health self-care is the key to open the door to eliminate Compulsive Helping from your relationships.
